Kids are becoming candyholics, and adults are to blame

Kids are becoming candyholics, and adults are to blame

Adults need to stop enabling kids’ candy addiction

By Mark Schatzker, CBC News       Jan 14, 2014

Recently, my seven-year-old daughter uttered the unlikeliest sentence I ever expected to issue from her mouth: ‘Mummy, I think we need to take a break from candy.’

The date was December 29th, and my daughter – wise beyond her years – was reflecting on the three-week candy and calorie fest that is the holiday season. And she was, at that moment, doing the very thing she proposed to stop: eating candy.

Children eat a lot of candy these days. I know because I used to eat a lot of candy. Or at least I thought I did, until my kids came along.

My candy eating, I came to realize, was like one of those old black-and-white hockey games you sometimes see on TV: slow, crude and painfully old fashioned.

I went entire days without eating candy. Not my kids. Candy is everywhere. Their friends have it. Their grandparents have it. They get candy when we go to the hardware store. They get candy from doctors and nurses. They get candy in loot bags. They even get candy from their teachers.

Don’t get me wrong, my kids are not the worst offenders. I went on a kindergarten field trip not long ago and discovered that some parents pack candy in their kids lunches – or pop, which, when you think about it, is just liquid candy.

Eventually, I was struck with the question: Is my childrens’ candy use actually a form of abuse? Are my kids candyholics?

I filled out one of those online addiction quizzes.

Do my children eat candy to have fun?

Do they eat candy alone?

Do they sneak candy when no one is looking?

Do they eat candy to have a good time?

Do they get upset if they don’t get candy?

Has a family member expressed concern about their candy eating?
Can they handle more candy now than when they first started eating candy?
Do they lie about the amount of candy they eat?
    Yes, yes, and yes.

The lying about candy started a few days after my daughter’s proposed candy cleanse. We decided to do it as a family. No candy for the month of January.

And not long after that, candy revisionism set in. After dinner one night, my son, pouting and clearly feeling sorry for himself, announced that in fact he had only had one piece of candy – a solitary marshmallow – over the entire holidays. “It’s not fair,” he said.

‘We are more aware than ever of the dangers of empty foods
and all the terrible problems they lead to
– obesity and diabetes to name just two.
And yet, instead of giving kids less candy,
we give them more.
What’s going on here? (shutterstock)

If he can learn to lie that convincingly as an adult, I thought to myself, he has a glorious future in politics.

His twin sister did him one better. She said she didn’t have any candy over the holidays, her lower lip quivering. My wife gently asked, “but what about the jelly beans?” My daughter cast her eyes towards the floor.

We’re now approaching the mid-way point of no-candy month, and it’s actually not going too badly – although there has been a measurable uptick in requests for Nutella and hot chocolate.

But the bigger question I have is why do kids eat so much candy?

There’s only one place they get it from: adults. So the real question is why do adults give kids so much candy?

We are more aware than ever of the dangers of empty foods and all the terrible problems they lead to – obesity and diabetes to name just two. And yet, instead of giving kids less candy, we give them more. What’s going on here?

There are, no doubt, many answers to this question, but here’s one of the big ones. It’s fun to give treats to adorable creatures. We give liver-and-bacon flavoured treats to dogs and sardines to cats. The behaviour seems almost instinctive. See cute face, give cute face calories.

So now that we know what the real problem is – adults – maybe adults should try and fix it. Because if we can’t control our urges, we surely can’t expect kids to.

source: CBC

0 thoughts on “Kids are becoming candyholics, and adults are to blame

  1. Candy is everywhere, my children ask if they can go to the shops just to get candy! We don’t keep it in the house but occasionally I will buy some when we go out. The problem with sugar is it also takes away the mechanism which says you’re full when you go to eat other foods, I also think this is why kids are so tall these days, sugar is in almost every packaged food and it’s not the same as the sugar our parents and grand parents used to eat. Our bodies are just not set up for the amount we eat either. Heart disease used to be blamed primarily on fat, it has now come to light that sugar is the culprit, and it doesn’t help that not many people know this, and in their bid to avoid fat by buying packages which say “98% fat free” they are in fact buying sugar laden foods. It is a crazy cycle!

    1. It is a crazy, frustrating cycle.
      More people would most definitely benefit from taking steps to minimize our intake of processed sugars.
      It is a big challenge for many of us.

      1. Absolutely! Our tastebuds change to suit what we’re eating on a regular basis and our brain releases endorphins when we eat it, it is addictive in that sense. My mum is a candyholic (love that term btw!) and when she tries to go cold turkey she feels like crap for a couple of days while her body re-adjusts.

  2. Candy, soft drinks and many other unhealthy “treats” are (unfortunately) normalized by most North Americans. It has become a part of Halloween, Valentines, Birthdays and many other situations, even though it is common knowledge that candy is unhealthy. You would think we would try harder for people we care about.
    It is a struggle, for sure.

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